SINGLES speed dating EVENT

Meet your valentine in the garden

This Valentine’s season, we’re hosting an in-person speed dating evening designed around real connection. 

Meet your valentine 

in the garden

THe details

Step into a Valentine’s evening designed for real conversation, meaningful connections, and a fun, intentional environment. This is not a loud mixer or a typical singles event—it’s a thoughtfully guided experience where you meet like-minded people face-to-face, without pressure or guesswork.

We start the evening at 5:30 with our group of singles where we will guide you through the experience and introduce ice breakers etc. to get you started. Our average age at this event is 40+

Following the speed dating round we will have open mingling in the garden & bar areas with some intentional pairings by design to help you connect deeper while you are welcome to enjoy the live music!

This evening is designed to feel grounded, playful, and pressure-free—whether it’s your first time at a singles event or you’re looking for a different kind of experience this Valentine’s this experience has something for everyone. 

 

Space is limited - RSVP to reserve your spot  Participants must be over 21 to submit and attend the event  

What to expect

  • A Calm, Guided Experience
    This is not a loud mixer or app-based speed dating. Every part of the evening is intentionally curated to support meaningful conversation and authentic connection.
  • Small, Curated Groups
    You’ll meet a limited number of participants within your age group—ensuring quality interactions and the chance to connect with people who are genuinely present.
  • Guided One-on-One Rounds
    Each conversation is timed and structured, giving you space to share, listen, and engage without pressure or guesswork.
  • Flexible Connection Spaces
    After your rounds, continue the conversation naturally in our patio area or indoor bar, depending on your preference.
  • A Garden-Inspired Atmosphere
    Relax in a space designed to feel elegant, welcoming, and distraction-free, perfect for connection.

 

let's start matching & mingling

find your match by design

$45

Ticket includes entry to the event, one drink ticket & the curated speed dating & mix & matchmaking event access 

your hosts:

Sam Howarth

Sam Howarth is the founder  & soul alignment guide behind The Way She Was Made. Using intuitive guidance, human design, astrology & holistic coaching Sam as a mind, body, soul & business approach to helping you holistically connect with yourself and others to realign with your purpose and move forward standing in your power. 

As a 4/6 generator in human design her soul purpose is rooted in connection, relationship building and being a bridge to help others connect with themselves and others that they are meant to along their journey. 

CONNECT WITH SAM

 

Shena Tarie

Shena is an intuitive guide offering services blending her gifts in human design, gene keys , tarot and intuitive guidance to help mirror back to you your full potential while helping you release any patterns or blocks that may be holding you back from connecting to your true self, achieving your goals and connecting to your soul path. 

As a 2/4 Manifesting generator, Shena is here to help guide others through connections that are naturally drawn in to her. Pairing with her intuitive gifts to help you align with your soul purpose and honoring your path she is here to help offer guidance along your journey. 

CONNECT WITH SHENA

 

FAQ

IS THERE AN AGE LIMIT FOR THE EVENT?

Yes - to purchase a ticket to this event you must be over the age of 21 years old to attend with our average age range 40+ 

WILL I BE MATCHED WITH PEOPLE 1-1?

We will facilitate rounds of speed dating followed by open mingling with some intentional guided connections mixed in based on your human design. 

CAN I GET A HUMAN DESIGN OR INTUITIVE GUIDANCE SESSION WITH YOU ALL? 

YES! We would love to connect with you to help you learn more about yourself and how you are designed to connect! Both Shena & Sam offer 1:1 and small group coaching and guidance to support you in achieving your goals and breaking through any blocks or patterns that have kept you stuck!

ARE THERE ANY RULES ON CONNECTING WITH PEOPLE AFTER THE EVENT?

This event is designed to help break down the barriers of connecting with others and help you have real time connections that are facilitated outside of the digital space. We are there to guide and help you connect with others at the event and if there is a mutual match where both of you are interested in connecting outside of the event we will share your contact info with each person. Contact info will only be shared if the match is mutual

WILL MY CONTACT INFO BE SHARED?

No. We will not share any of your personal or contact information with anyone at the event or through any communication. The information provided will be used to help us pair you with potential matches and to communicate with you on event updates etc. 

DO I NEED TO UNDERSTAND HUMAN DESIGN TO ATTEND THE EVENT?

Nope! We will give each participate a little cheat sheet to help you understand yourself and others better along with ice breakers etc. However, you do not need to understand or use any of the human design or any other modalities! the beauty of these modalities is it is used like an archetype test without you having to answer any questions other than your birthdate information. 

Celebrate this valentines day with intentional convos in the garden through our curated speed dating experience.

LIMITED SPACE AVAILABLE

Ready for an evening of intentional connections rooted in your design?

Housekeeping… 

All insights, pairings, and introductions offered through the Scarlet Thread Society are for entertainment and educational purposes only. While we do our best to create a safe and enjoyable environment, we cannot guarantee the accuracy or honesty of any personal information provided by attendees.

 

By purchasing a ticket to the event and participating, you acknowledge that you are solely responsible for your own choices and experiences, including any interactions that occur outside of the event. You also acknowledge that you are over 21. We encourage all guests to exercise personal discernment, due diligence, and appropriate safety practices when connecting with others beyond the event space.